well when talking go down to a little square button below the chat lines..and itll say persuade then you can either bribe them which i thinki is the easier way by far..or if your low on gold or just dont want to bother to give them it..youll play that persuade game...you have four wedges..you need to press on the one that has the most yellow in it when it aligns with a happy face..so for example if you highlight a wedge that has loads of yellow in it and there face goes really happy then press x ..but if there face goes really angry or slightly angry stay away from it for now..each wedge in a round gives a love,like,dislike and hate so try go for tha ones that he/she loves or likes that has the bigger wedge..
but this way is tough and ive never actually got them to the stage were theyll talk bout new stuff playing this game..i usually just bribe them to 70+
hope it helps
